The bond between a grandparent and grandchild can be unique, very special and good for the whole family. There are so many benefits to making sure your children can have a relationship with their grandparents. The grandparent can be a role model and positive influence. They can instill a sense of family pride as they share culture and family history with the children. They can even act as arbitrators between parents and their children.
Grandparents often have time to spend with our children. They may have skills to pass on like cooking, woodworking, sewing, fishing etc. Many of us have special memories of our own grandparents. Some of my own memories include the smell of my grandfather's vet office and the stories on my grandmother's lap. My other grandfather would offer us apple slices cut with his jackknife. The unconditional love between children and their grandparents can provide a sense of stability and security for children.
Many children are blessed with having grandparents who live nearby. But what about the family whose grandparents may live miles away? Visits should be planned into our busy schedules. Technology can be used to send pictures, email and even video chat. Children love to get mail. Grandparents can send letters and then the children can do the same.
If your children do not have grandparents, they can developa relationship with a local elderly person. This may be a neighbor, friend's grandparent or someone at the local nursing home. Creating a bond like this can also help our children have a positive attitude and respect for the elderly. This past week I witnessed the extreme grief of children losing a grandparent. However, I bet they would never trade the time and love they shared with that grandparent for anything in the world.
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